Most people are the victims of their own circumstances. What they don’t understand is that their circumstances are often a result of the decisions they make. Sometimes bad things do happen to us, and these are things we have no control over. More often, what happens to us is the result of the decisions we have made based on what we believe.
So how do you change all that? How do you get rid of limiting beliefs and feelings that no longer serve you? How do you attract positive things into your life? You do this by changing how you think. The problem is, how do you change what you think?
Just as Rome wasn’t built in a day, changing what you believe to attract what you want starts one day at a time. The only time you have is now. When tomorrow comes, it will be today. Yesterday is gone, and since we can do nothing to change it, the best thing to do is learn from it, let it go, and move on.
Here are seven things you can do to help you do just that:
1. Write in Your Journal Daily
If you don’t have a journal, I highly recommend that you begin keeping one. The key here is not to write about what has happened to you. Write about the unresolved feelings you have over the issues in your life. When you do this, then you can let those feelings go. Letting negative feelings go will help you feel better.
I learned that by focusing on the unresolved feelings I had, instead of the people, places, and things in my life. I could feel any way I wanted to. It was OK to feel the way I did. By acknowledging my feelings and then feeling them, they couldn’t cause me to self-sabotage anymore.
2. Meditate Daily
Meditation is one of the most effective ways to resolve anything. By meditating just 20 minutes per day, you can totally revolutionize your life. The reason is that meditation is calming. It helps you to relax, and it also helps you to stay in the moment.
Much of our stress comes from thinking about things in the past or worrying about future events, things we have no control over or can’t change. When we let go of these things and focus on the moment we are in, then we can enjoy the moment and respond to those things we need to take care of now, not worry about things that may never happen.
3. Believe that You Will Win
Henry Ford once said, “If you believe you can, or you believe you can’t, you are right.” What you believe is absolutely crucial to your success because it will influence the decisions you make.
You will make choices based on how you feel, not based on what is really happening or what is truly reality. You are not your circumstances. If your circumstances are based on your choices, then you can change your circumstances by changing your choices. Believe that you will win, and you will.
4. Write Goals and Plans of Action
To have what you want, you must know what you want. This is your starting point. Once you know what you want, then you need to set a goal and then create a plan of action to achieve that goal. Just make sure that your beliefs are in line with what you want. Otherwise, you won’t be happy with what you get.
5. Become Well-Rounded
What I mean by this is that I want you to get an education. Study all types of things like history, philosophy, and other disciplines. Read the classics. Pay particular attention to works like “The Science of Getting Rich,” by Wallace Wattles and “The Master Key System,” by Charles Haanel. These works can help you develop self-mastery in your life. They can also help you achieve the things you want to achieve. Being well-rounded helps you understand the world better. More importantly, it helps you to understand who you are and find your purpose.
6. Use Positive Affirmations
Wrong or negative thinking can be one of the worst things you can engage in. When we’re negative and pessimistic, we tend to attract more negativity and pessimism. Like attracts like.
Affirmations help you develop the right mindset so that you bring these things into your life. The key here is to use repetition. The more you repeat these positive phrases, the more likely they are to sink deep into your subconscious, where they take root and become an automatic part of your thinking.
7. Share Personal Growth with Others
Everything in the universe is made of energy, and so everything is an energy exchange. What you send out into the universe will come back to you, so you want to send out positive. As Zig Ziglar said, “You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.” By helping others, you will get what you want because what you send out into the universe comes back to you.
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